Signs you39re dating a commitment phobe
If your date does this to you on a regular basis it can become frustrating and will cause some nasty arguments. If you (quite rightly) confront your flaky date and they snap at you, accusing you of being overly sensitive, a drama queen or a controlling mess, then you know they are a commitment-phobe. If your date hasn’t showed any signs of introducing you into their life then they clearly want to keep their independence and are compartmentalizing elements of their life; this is a classic trait found in all commitment-phobes.
If you start a lot of projects (DIY, crafting, writing, dance classes, whatever), but you always leave them half-finished, it may be a sign that you’re uncomfortable making decisions that affect your life in the long-term.Commitment-phobic men are tortured souls full of fear.They are in a constant state of emotional conflict because of their negative irrational beliefs about love, commitment and relationships.It also suggests that they are a little bit scared of a serious relationship, which is why they want to make fun of anyone who is in one.There’s nothing sadder than listening to a forty-something-year-old guy talking about how his band is going to make it big and that a record label deal is definitely, 100 per cent in the pipeline.