Same sex speed dating
The assumption is that women (because this is almost always a hetero male issue) will date a man who can rock their worlds and a virgin has no chance of pleasing her.And once he does, she will spread the word through the Cute Girl Network and ensure he’s blacklisted from all sexual activities in the future.It is what it is and that’s ) why you’ve had few (or no) relationships or sexual partners.Something I’m always saying is that excuses don’t help; they’re a way of getting out of taking responsibility for your actions.If you venture into any Forever Alone or incel community like /r9k/, you’ll see hundreds of people lamenting how much sex they’ve never had and how the world is conspiring against them.
First and foremost is trying to rationalize away your inexperience.
But here’s the fun thing about numbers: they don’t tell you as much as we think.
Someone who’s had many sex partners may be the last of the red hot lovers… Someone who’s had very few may well be shy and awkward…
The numbers are arbitrary and invented and almost always tend to be pulled from thin air; I’ve had statistics when it comes to sex and relationships.
We tend to make assumptions based around expectations built up by pop-culture and expectations about what makes a “real” man, assuming that everybody (but us) has been riding the sex train since the 5th Grade while we’re still Machokeing our Combusken at 19.