Every African man of African parents no matter how many years he has spent abroad still carries that African man ego & mentality; this heavily influences the dynamics of his intimate relationships.
We tend to avoid the consequences associated with the choice we make which equals inexplicable friction, and stress. The truth is that to the average Nigerian man the concept of marriage is twisted. It plays out like this, “if you are a good girl and you impress me I will marry you. I will just wait for you to get older and taunt you about it” They are like a child with a toy and Funmi Iyanda tried to take it away from them. Hence the vitriol in her Twitter mentions after her tweets. But there is one guy who I am interested in who seems to not fit that mold. He takes hours to answer a text message when we all KNOW that our phones are glued to our face.I don’t understand…we will be texting back and forth for a few, then nothing…air silence! I would say that we guys prefer text because it makes it easier to avoid talking to someone when we don’t feel like it.