Dating an indie girl
Keeping us waiting at a bus/metro stop, bringing their friends along for support, ordering for us and going dutch definitely don't make them dating material. We have a tattoo, enjoy a drink or two and hang out with your friends, so we must definitely be ‘easy,’ right? His mother: Nothing and no one ever supercedes the Indian mother.And just because we went on a date, doesn’t mean we've devoted our lives to being subservient to your feelings and choices! The unrealistic expectations: Yes, we went on a date with you. No, it is not all right to presume that we will sleep with you, marry you and produce offspring for you. Honestly, we don’t know where you got your education, but you need to go back for some common sense. The talks: "It is not a relationship baby, it’s ‘so’ much more than that." This one is for the oversmart Indian men. We might be the prettiest, talented, richest, kindest people on the planet but we have to be approved by ‘mumma’ first! The smell: Indian men think that body odour is acceptable. The ego: Studies have shown that larger the ego, smaller the appendage. Arranged marriages: You will never be the one he marries because after all mommy insists on an arrange marriage for her prince.These women are almost completely overlooked, so they tend to be amazingly receptive to guys that take some notice on the dating sites.
Dating Indian men, on the other hand, is a whole different story.
But of course, the situations varies widely with each lady.
There are literally millions of traditional Indian women who would love to meet an Western man, but most of these women live in India’s thousands of villages and small towns.
In the villages India is still an extraordinarily backwards and conservative society.
Life has not change much in a thousand years, religion, and caste rules still control daily life.